Sunday, 23 February 2014

Day 4 - Sending My Best Friend Off

It was such an emotional day. I woke up early in the morning and picked Chinh up from Eunos MRT Station.. Time fled really fast!! He's leaving !!!!! While we were on the train, he passed me a shirt he brought from Vietnam. Well, I have no clue why he passed me a shirt but I am sure that it will serve a significant amount of sentimental value since he is my best vietnamese friend. The rest of journey, we were both silent and emotional.  

We met the other girls at Changi Airport and took some photos. It might be the last time I meet them already; maybe, but I will do the best of my ability to visit them biannually or even annually when possibly can. After-all, they have been great friends when we were all working with Pan Pacific. It is saddening to know that we are all living from different countries. It will not be easy to meet up as frequent as possible.. But it is okay - we will still meet whenever possible.

Winnie, Chibi, Hana
Chinh and Winnie
Me and Chinh
Winnie, me and Chinh
Chibi and Chinh
My best friend and me!
Farewell, my friends! All the best in life! 
I hugged my best friend very tight before he went off ~
 I will certainly visit Vietnam one day - to visit all my good friends there!
Friends, we will meet one day!

Updated on 26/2/14
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Saturday, 22 February 2014

Day 3 With Best Friend

My best vietnamese friend and I finally were able to spend some time alone without anyone tagging along!  Our plans were formerly - taking a swim at Infinity Pool and then visiting Gardens by the Bay.

All our our plans were destroyed because of my bad sense of direction. In the end, we took two hours walking and traveling on bus! I was so embarrassed and apologetic and that I kept repeating that I was sorry. However, Chinh told me that I did not have to apologize because we are friends.
Throughout the journey, we both felt a little emotional. I know we would miss one another when we both separated.
Hence, Chinh suggested that we should find a place and swim. On my mind I was thinking that we could actually head to e!hub there for a relaxing swim!!

It was a good day. Even we did not visit the places we wanted, but I believe I have done my best to squeeze in as many places as I could within the past three days! When we bade goodbye at the bus, my tears started to flow incessantly. BRO, YOU WILL BE GREATLY MISSED!

Updated on 26/2/14

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Friday, 21 February 2014

Day 2 With Best Friend at Night Safari

We planned to meet again - as Chinh would be departing Singapore in the next few days. In fact, I had regaled him with the magical stories of nocturnal animals in Night Safari the day before. 

So, what's so magical about these animals? I have no idea either. 

Back to topic. Earlier in the day, I sat for an amplitude in Temasek Polytechnic and an interview since design course was my first choice in TP. The test was an assessment of my creativity and suitability in that course. So, what happened next? 

I think I have screwed it. Big time. In all honesty, who cares? It does not affect me if I were not to be chosen. Tôi không thích khóa học. Tôi không thực sự quan tâm. One of the interviewers was absolutely right that I attended the course test and interview for the sake of getting a place in TP.

All I wanted to do during that point of time was to meet my good friend as soon as possble!! It was all my fault. I should not have arranged the wrong time with him. He did not deserve to wait for an hour because of my bad sense of time! *Sorry* So glad that Chinh was very generous and forgiving as he told me that he would be waiting for me and that I did not have to fret. 

Look, any Singaporean would have been fuming mad if they were to be made waiting for an hour. Even I will get mad at people who do that to me! C'mon, it is human nature to get angry, right? Come to think of it, we all make mistakes and we deserve to be forgiven because we are not saints. I am not trying to tell how glamorous being tardy is; as all I wish I could do is to say how this vietnamese friend had warmed my heart. 

Anyway, Chinh tagged a friend called Sunny along with him (whom I thought he looked somewhat familiar) and we became friends! It is probably one of the most embarrassing experiences to get lost in Singapore, especially when I had two foreign friends with me! I did not know where and how to get to Night Safari! 

Sunny said that an SMRT staff told him that he could hitch a bus from Ang Mo Kio Station. Seriously?Well, whoever advised him that bus trip is ridiculous! Just imagine the ridiculous amount of time which he would spend on that bus ride! The journey would take at least two hours if you stay faraway from Ang Mo Kio! C'mon, this is so ridiculous! 

 In actuality, my sense of direction is atrocious, too. I do not have the god-damn rights to criticize anyone, right? At first, I thought we could take the bus at Boon Lay and then transferred to a bus from the bus interchange. Boy, was I wrong. In the end, we took a bus from Choa Chu Kang instead as I was advised by the staff in SMRT .  Embarrassing much. The two friends were already fatigue from the long wait at the MRT station; and now I delayed it even longer. So helpless when I saw how tired they were.  I turned and gave them an embarrassing smile and assured them we would be reaching Night Safari soon.

Phew. Luckily, they were fine.. At least they did not grumble in front of me.. Still, embarrassing much !!*__*  I swear that an adequate homework must be done before I could even volunteer to tour my foreign friends around Singapore. Their smiles were fading by the time when we reached the bus interchange at Choa Chu kang.  

Well, they did not seem excited when they reached the destination as it was obviously the bus ride which caused them such tiredness. Anyway I purchased their tickets to atone for my mistakes. Chinh was like,  I have to pay you back for the mistake.. And of course, I turned him down and told him that it was okay because he is my friend.. 
The trip to Night Safari would be meaningless without a ride on the 45 minute guided tram tour! Well, the tickets were exorbitant, but they worth it as long as the journey on the tram could put a smile on their faces.
During the journey, Chinh held on to my camera and captured whatever animals he could see.. There, we found the tigers, the lions, the buffalos, the tapirs, the antelopes, the deers etc. Pardon, I am not a zoologist and I have no clue what their real names are.. Anyway, it was such an exciting ride and all of us had fun.
The rest of the night, we journeyed through the specially-lit streets and did some window shopping there. Honestly, there's nothing much at Night Safari besides the rides and the walking trail. If you have decided to visit Night Safari, you must take a ride on the tram! During some parts of the journey, do get down and explore the walking trails in there!! Well, we did not get to go down because Sunny preferred to sit through the whole tram journey!
We found this interesting animal-head floor mat!
Hahaha! That makes my day. 
I swear that this super creative.. Maybe I could buy if for japanese friend!
A real-life looking crocodile found in the middle of the road. Beware, the creature is gonna bite your head off!
Do I look like a crocodile hunter??
Before we headed back home, we took some photos to fill the night up before we separated our ways!!
Sunny and Chinh
Chinh and me!
Sunny, Chinh and me!
Updated on 16/2/14 at 1413
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Thursday, 20 February 2014

Day 1 With Best Friend At Sentosa

The past few days were spent with my vietnamese best friend, Chinh, as he would be departing Singapore within a matter of days. These four days were very emotional, especially last night. 

When he leaves, I will miss his presence a lot. I will miss the fun days we had back in Pan Pacific. I will miss everything about us. Even though I did not remind Chinh consistently how much he will be missed like this good friend did, I am sure this sentimental friend could feel it because he caught me falling tears when we were on the train the day before.

When we bade adieu yesterday, my tears flowed uncontrollably down my cheeks like a flood. WHY DOES HE HAVE TO LEAVE SO SOON! It breaks my heart when I know that it will not be anytime soon that we will meet again. On the other hand, I feel happy for him as he would be seeing his family and friends again..

On the first day (20/2/2014), we visited sentosa. In fact I wanted to spend some time alone with Chinh because it would be more personal and precious. Well, please do not get me wrong. I will not dismiss any friends of his off, as long as Chinh felt it was okay. 
Chinh's face lit up when he spotted a big earth-looking ball spinning in the middle of the crowd. 
Well, Rainny cooled her heels in a corner and used her phone. Chinh, on the other hand, was away exploring the sunny island. 

Updated on 26/2/14 at 1412

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Wednesday, 19 February 2014

My Fuck-up Life

If you are reading this, you are probably following me.
 I just want to say thank you 
and I love you.

I am so hurt. It causes so much pain when I know that I have ruined every single close human relationship with people. As of now, seeing all the familiar faces around on the social media are hurting me so bad. Apparently, I hate to admit that most of my true friends have exited my life already.

I feel like running away. Just suddenly leaving. No notes. No warning. Just getting my shit and leaving. I will then abandon all my current social contacts, start afresh and meet new people.

However, it is impossible.
I cannot do that.
No matter what!

Maybe I should stop using Facebook as a whole?
What do you think?

Monday, 17 February 2014

Thoughts! Thoughts! Thoughts!

Hey readers.. This case has been quite settled down and no one in my office has mentioned anything about the lost watch anymore.. I hope things will remain as what they are and I hope my life can regain the much needed peace ..

Well, speaking about peace.. I am going for a nice swim at the downtown east! It has been a long time I last dip my feet into the pool already! It's time to enjoy some fun out there!! These two days my mind was quite negative and I feel I need to soak myself in the water and contemplate about my future plans.. Have been pondering over my choice to sing.. yes, I love singing BUT I'm starting to believe that singing is not my strength and I am not born to be able to sing well.. So.. Perhaps I should invest my time and money in something more concrete and realistic..

Realistic?? Maybe I should something related to fitness?? I want something that allows me to flaunt .. Like martial arts?? OR maybe I should consider taking up calisthenic classes? Hahahaha!! Well, I will see how things go.. Maybe my inspiration will kick in when I am in the water.. 

Saturday, 15 February 2014

Progress Of The Alleged Theft Case

On thursday night, the guest called in and asked for the status of the watch. It was a good sign because there had not been any updates from anyone after the incident broke out. Some people think that no news means good news. Well, in this scenario, I feel that it would have been bad news because it could also be a bad omen. You see, it actually made things even way scarier when no follow-up actions were taken.

Over the phone, I could feel that the conversation between my OM and the guest was quite tense. I was actually told that the guest was quite nasty from the way when she conversed with him. Apparently, my OM promised to provide an answer to the guest earliest by next week. In that case, I knew I needed to take some action. Miss Lim, our big boss, came down personally and reminded me that I had to locate the item no matter what. She wanted me to calm down and re-enact the whole situation on that day as she strongly believed that the item must have been misplaced somewhere.

In the end, I handed over my work over to my OM and spent the whole night in the room, till about 1:30am, in hopes that I would stumble upon it somewhere in the room. Though I knew the search might be futile, but it was always a good thing to allow my boss to feel my strong desire to recover the watch.
The next day, the seventh day of the incident, I was summoned back to the security post upon reaching the office. This time round, the security head wanted me to identify the watch (the details such as the color of its straps and rims). On his computer screen were thumbnails of different Bvlgari watches under the Google search. Well, I told him what I could remember, like the black strap and black rims and that the content on the watch display was actually an analogue....etc

When I was released, I felt so much lighter when my admin staff showed me instances of watch which I did not to hand over to the security. Look, it proved that I was not brand conscious and that the absence of knowledge that the watches were considered a valuable.. At the end of the day, I was told that the guest have been informed of the negative search and that he would be paid the compensation in terms of the value of the watch which he claimed to be.. Apparently. we need to wait for the response from the guest ..

Involvement In An Alleged Theft Case

Feb 6, 2014  -  NEGLIGENCE OF DUTIES AND ITS PERILS. 
The trial had all began with Service One who brought me a lost and found case which involved an exorbitant watch - a member of Bvlgari series.

BACKGROUND STORY: A japanese guest left his watch in the hotel room upon checking out. Service One, the guest service agency, had been contacted pertaining to the issue and the valuable had then been handed over to my custody.

On that day, I was extremely tired and my mind could not concentrate well. As such, my work performance was immensely affected and that I became less vigilant to the surrounding.

 Feb 8, 2014  -  PRECURSOR OF DANGER 
As it was my off day, I did not care two hoots about phone messages and calls. It was already eleven by the time when I knew about the incident.

 Feb 9, 2014  - MY NIGHTMARE HAS BEGAN 
I was warned about the seriousness of the lost and found case by my colleague who spammed me whatapps messages early in the morning. The case had been brought to the attention of the security guards and that I needed to contact the duty Operational Manager (OM) immediately to assist them in the search. Reluctantly, I made a call to one of the OMs and figured out that the watch owner would be returning back to retrieve the item! It was claimed (by the guest) that the watch actually worth SDG6000 and that it was very critical to locate the item as soon as possible.

The security guard came over to my department and assisted me to search for the watch. In the end, we had negative finding and I was summoned over to the security post to record a seven-hour statement!  For the first few hours, I was flustered because it seemed like eternity for me to remember the whole situation that happened three days ago. However, I managed to draft out some details on a piece of paper...

The interrogation was taxing and tiring. During my dinner break, the Front Office OM spoke to me and advised me to be consistent in my story and that it is a big no-no in any situation to answer them a 'I don't know'. When I clarified with her regarding the most possible consequences of the case, she assured me that it would not be serious since it was only the first time I had committed such an offense.

Upon finishing my dinner, I was hauled back to the security post to continue another three hours of torturous interrogation. Thank god, I could actually feel the goodness and sincerity of the security guard when he told me that he was also trying his best to clear my name. At the end of the recording, the security guard reminded me that I had to return back to record another statement on the next day! *faint* At the end of the recording, I was strongly advised to shut my phone as I might experience incessant calls from the office tomorrow! *I know right* 

It was already eleven when I returned back to the office. Unfortunately, I had to brush up my work before go home!! There were many lost and found items strewn all over on my table and they scared me to death because I was traumatized by the incident!! 

While I was packing my stuff, one of the malay security guards, flashed me a consoling smile and passed me a pack of biscuit. His action assured me that he could understand that I had a long and  tough night and that I needed to take a break!

On Feb 10, 2014 - WORST DAY OF MY LIFE 
As soon as I reached the office, I was summoned by a different security guard to record another statement. I was already a bag of nerves but I had managed to keep my cool and did my best to assist them in the case.

I was told that the investigation had shown some discrepancies in my previous statement. Yesterday, I asserted that there was this female supervisor who replaced me for lunch. However, it had turned out that the supervisor I mentioned did not take over me during my lunch!!

The head of security interrupted and began to lash out an interrogation of a lifetime. During the half an hour, it felt like I was in a hellhole, awaiting for persecution. I was buried under a bombardment of question during the whole time.
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Security head: This is a very serious case. If I were to disclose the value of the watch, you might get the shock out of your life. Tell me how would you value a watch?

Me (confidently): It depends on the appearance of the watch such as the material used for the strap. If the strap turns out to be a non-metallic, the watch will not be considered as a valuable. Honestly, I don't usually deem a watch as a valuable.

Security head (continued):You mentioned in your previous statement that the watch had been placed in the plastic container. I am curious if there were any other ways that anyone could have known about it? Why did you not hand over to the security?

Me: I did not surrender the watch to the security as it came across as a cheap non-valuable. Hence, I thought it was not necessary to hand over to the security.

Security head: According to the previous records, there were a few watches which were handed over to the security during the point of your employment. What would make this Bvlgari watch be an exception??

Security head (continued, pushed his chest out like a Tarzan): Now it brings us back to the main question. Do you have ANY evidence to prove your innocence?

Me (felt extremely upset and indignant and began to raise my voice): I did not steal the watch!!

Security head (bellowed): Did I say that you stole the watch?! You are wasting everyone's bloody time just because of your mistake! You'd better find ways to prove your innocence. 

Security (turned to the security who sat beside me): what is the maximum charge for this case? I think at least five years, right? And, he turned back to me and yelled: If the guest has decided to file a charge against you, I'm afraid you have to serve a maximum five years behind the bar.

Me (thinking): Are you insulting my intelligence? Stealing the watch when I knew the guest would be returning for it? Are you telling me that I am stupid enough to dig my own grave? Mind you, why would I want to steal the item? For thrills and excitement? Nah. There are no right reasons why would I want to put myself into such a risk when all I wanted to do was to earn a little pennies back?  Luckily, you never say I stole the watch right at my face or I could actually sue you for slandering. 

On hindsight, I should never have raised my voice during the whole time. In this situation, I could have stayed calm and the last thing I should never have done was to further aggravate him! In actuality, who would have thought about the steep price when the watch actually appeared to be kind of.. cheap?

Come to think of it, this case is quite invalid. There were no CCTVs in the office and I really wonder how they can ever ensure the security of important stuff within the office. Apparently, the case is BEYOND the security level and the matter will be escalated to the higher level of authority.

When I was near my office, I broke down instantly when my supervisor questioned me about the progress. Well, this 67 years old lady stood by me, showed a little concern and she was like, 'Why are you so unlucky? You should have paid heed to your surrounding!'

My new OM came along and assured me that there was nothing to be afraid of if the watch was not stolen by me. He said, 'Now I am advising you as a friend, not from the point of view as a manager, that you should not be absent from work during these few days. If you are truly guilt-free, all the more you should not be afraid. Stay calm and focus on your work and I can assure you that everything will be fine'

Thank god for such an understanding superior.

On the way home, on my mind were varying versions of what my life in the future would lie ahead of me. Would my name be cleared? Would I be jailed if I did not have sufficient evidence to prove my innocence? If I had been sentenced to prison, what would I be expecting then? The more I think, The more upset I became. When I returned home, my dad showed a little concern and asked me how the situation was. As I was feeling vexed, I shrugged him off and refused to say anything. Seeing how stubborn I was, my dad was deeply offended and stormed off. (Sorry dad. I just hate to make my problem your problem. I have done enough things which have disappointed you)

This incident had deeply scarred my life. In all honesty, I had never involved in such a complicated case in my whole life and apparently I was living on pins and needles every single day!

FEB 11, 2014 - FELT A LITTLE BETTER 
On the next day, my mom came over and spoke to me about the incident. She felt that I did not pray to God in the temple during chinese new year. It was said that the purpose of praying to God during the new year is important because we need to seek protection from God to prevent the onslaught of the unscrupulous people around us. 

Having felt insecure, I picked up the bible (a birthday gift last year) and brought it along wherever I go. 
If the case has blown out of proportion, I might consider seeking legal advices to clear my name off the accusation. Well, I am especially grateful and thankful to my best friend, Gideon, who decided to stay a little while with me after his work. Thank God for good friends!

Wednesday, 12 February 2014

Bon Voyage, James!

MY VIETNAMESE GOOD FRIEND,  JAMES KUP
Finally, I managed to tour my Vietnamese friend on 8 Feb 2014 around my hometown before he leaves for Vietnam on 13 Feb 2014!

Initially, we planned to spend our time together on last thursday. However, James was involved in an alleged theft case and we had to call off our plan. Thank God, I chanced upon him outside Suntec City en route to work on the next day! We warmly embraced one another and had a cosy tête-à-tête before a new appointment was made! 

CHINATOWN
That frustrating moment when you were meeting someone but your so-called good phone died on you.
 Blame on me for my laziness to charge my phone the day before. I was so incensed when my phone ran out of battery when I was just a few stations away from the destination. At that point of time, I was like, 'This could not be my luck! How am I suppose to contact James without memorizing his number well?' It took me a massive of effort before I could finally recall his number ... In another words, it was a pure fluke that I could recollect that eight digits and it took me just one try to get through James using the public phone. 

Initially, I was bewildered by James' choice of destination when he requested to meet up at Chinatown Station! In all honesty, I was thinking why had it to be Chinatown when there were so many other nicer places we could visit! I finally understood his intention when James explained that he was recommended by a friend that he could get an affordable luggage there!

As it was his virgin trip to this foreign land, he needed my assistance to locate the luggage store. God gracious, did I know the streets well. Frankly speaking, it was a rather challenging request because I patronize Chinatown on a very rare occasion. After asking directions from a few store vendors around the streets, we finally were able to locate the luggage store which was actually situated at the three-storey hawker centre! 
After we found the baggage, we took a languid stroll along the beautiful streets of Chinatown!  Since it was the first time James set foot there, we decided to visit some chinese shops and take some pictures together!

PASIR RIS
Hunger pangs began to attack our stomaches when the clock stroke five. It was a clear signal that we needed to source for an exquisite eatery to dine! It would definitely be a huge turn-off if our dinner was settled at a cheaper alternative such as hawker centers or food-courts. Hence, I insisted that we should visit my hometown (Pasir Ris) so that I could tour him around to taste the best foods. At the same time, it would make a splendid opportunity to show him around places where I live.

A veil of calm settled upon me when he did not scream blue murders when he was asked to go somewhere far away from his dorm. In actuality, I expected him to be like, 'It is so far kup. Please do not bring me far away from my house kup'. Teehee.
P.S Ignore all the 'kups' for that word is actually our inside joke.

But, he did not. Phew. 

Anyway, I had my answers long prepared if he were to complain about the distance. I would definitely question him back with 'WHAT COULD BE FURTHER THAN TRAVELING AROUND YOUR COUNTRY?'. I am sure that that this answer would totally shut him up. Brilliant, I know.

While James peered through the windows, it tickled my funny bone when he commented that the eastern side of Singapore had a resemblance much like rows of villages!  *Seriously? Rows of villages? Then he certainly would have gotten it all wrong! Singapore's unique history of having catapulted from a Third World to a First World country within ONE generation's lifetime has let it to be held as a model for many countries. As Singapore has been touted as a world-class, everyone should have already known of our sublime educational system, our amazing infrastructure and our economic success. Hence, it would be an understatement to claim that villages still exist in a fast-growing country like ours!

Cannot blame him.  During the past three months, James had merely witnessed our glorious side when he visited Marina Bay Sands and Sentosa.When I mentioned about our glorious side, I meant that no smart visitors would actually pay a lump sum of money for the air tickets in order to admire our ubiquitous HDB flats, right?  Besides our famous HDB flats, the passing sceneries on the train at the east-west line were rows and rows of rain trees. I am 100% sure that our leafy trees, forested lands, the flats and condominiums he saw are not our tourist spots. Since it was also his maiden ride to the eastern part of Singapore, it was no wonder James would contribute such a humorous remark.

I am quite positive that the ride on the MRT had opened his eyes wide, especially the village part. :P
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Whilst en route to Pasir Ris, he also realized (and got him the shock out of his life) the amount of time I had to spend on traveling to work! *NOW PEOPLE FINALLY UNDERSTOOD MY PAIN*

YAM'S KITCHEN
Well, why Yam's Kitchen? Simple - because I liked it. And I had the cocksure assurance that James would fancy it as well!
Yam's Kitchen was my top choice because the dishes there have pleasured me in every aspect - the taste, the appearance and the portion. Also, what on earth could be better when good foods were accompanied with a good friend like James?

 Since my vietnamese best friend had been quite interested to attempt chinese foods, it made it all the more a good opportunity to bring him closer to our chinese culture! However, I learnt from James that the dishes were comparable to that of Vietnam's in terms of taste and appearance! Well, that means, it made no difference from the foods he has in his country!

:P

After our dinner, the next plan on my itinerary was to bring him to the rooftop car-park. James was amused at the mention of visiting the car-park, but was then amazed and mesmerized with the BREATHTAKING sceneries there. With that in mind, we decided to capture some photos to serve as memories.
The rest of the night was spent chatting with James and his vietnamese counterparts at the food-court.  
If only we had more time, I would have brought him to the beach - that sanctuary I have grown up liking and proud of. James will be leaving in a few more days and I wish him all the best in whatever he does. Here's a short paragraph dedicated to my good vietnamese friend, James:

虽然我们只认识短短了两个月
但是感觉上与你相处了好几年
虽然和我们之间有语言的障碍
但是在友情之上我们仍然坚固
当我需要和你挥手道别的时候,
心里有虽然会有一丝丝的不舍,
但我坚信如果有缘千里来相聚~

It was such a privilege to have a proper meet-up before he leaves for Vietnam. The day had ended well and I will miss us. We will DEFINITELY meet up in the near future!

Bon Voyage, my friend! ;)